http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fz3zFqLc3E&feature=related
Here's a funny song that I think illustrates my point pretty well.
Basically the point of this post is to start an argument/prove a point. My point is this, Most girls, now I said most girls not all girls. Most girls go only for Jerks and douche bags. Nice guys are not "mysterious" or "dangerous" enough for the girls so they go for the guys that are "projects" or make them excited because they are bad boys. If their friends or family say something, or tell them they are bad for them, they don't listen. then when they're hurt the nice guys are there for them, yet still they wont go for the "good guys"
First I want to address this "mysterious" thing that girls have for guys, don't you realize that all people are mysterious? You need to get to know everyone. There is this excitement that the girls feel with the mysterious guys, you know why they're mysterious? those guys have lots of secrets, and they don't want you to know about them, so they don't let you in and keep you at arms length. they're usually just in it all for a piece of ass. if you really got to know them you would see how fake they are.
Now I want to address the friend zone. I think this is the stupidest thing ever and ALL girls do it. You meet a girl and spend time with her, but if you spend too much time, or get to know her at all, you get placed in a cold little hell that there is no escape from.the funny thing is if you're the "friend" and are stuck in the friend zone you are no longer a sexual option. you are like a brother, or cousin. You are fun but there will be no dating between you and said girl. I mean every girl dreams of marrying her best friend, but she won't date any of her "friends" as soon as a guy gets seated in the friend zone he is undateable, and it is almost impossible for him to get out.
Here is a comment from the Chicago Tribune about the friend zone.
"When a guy agrees to be friends, he's forced to stifle his attraction while regularly seeing and talking to the woman he's attracted to. She discusses her love life and has the audacity to ask his advice on it. He performs occasional "manly" household and automotive favors for the woman. Essentially, he does everything a boyfriend would do––without the benefits. -- Gina B., Chicago Tribune, 2007"
I've been there many times, it really tears you apart.
You can take it how it is or decide whatever you want, I know I am ranting, and I know I am complaining a little, but I am just trying to tell it how it is, if you disagree with me, or agree with me let me know, maybe we can come up with a cure for this disease. But what I really think needs to happen is girls need to give those nice guys a chance, or if you move them into the friend zone and they ask you out, go out with them. Give them a chance to woo you, if they don't then they go right back. You never know what you could be passing up.
I don't know, it is crazy how girls do that. I guess that I should just start treating girls like trash, and objects, maybe that will get them to notice me... they seem to like being treated like crap so if I start doing it I might get a girlfriend, what do you think readers? should I start flipping my collar and wearing a sideways ball cap? if it will get me the girls I'm tempted to try it.
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This brotha agrees. 27 years old, nice guy, single guy.
ReplyDeleteWell, I've put guys in the friend zone. I couldn't help it. I liked the guy, and I wanted to be friends, but I wasn't attracted to them. I tried never to do that garbage of leading a guy on, but since I wasn't on the receiving end of that I can't be positive. You don't want to be with those girls anyway.
ReplyDeleteAnd don't worry! Your chick will totally be worth waiting for. I think I've said this before. My husband didn't get with this until he was 25. Like, if the lady you're supposed to be with is living in another state right now, but you meet in a year and immediately hit it off, it's no big deal since there was nothing you could do, you know? I know it's easier said since I am currently in the wedded relationship getting to tap that, but she really will be worth it.
I agree, but I think we're all guilty of it, not just girls. I think the girls that guys want to date (hot ones) and girls that guys want to marry (spiritual, will be good mothers, can cook) are not always the same thing either. I guess people actually get married when they both become mature enough to date the kind of person they want to marry. For example, Jake was firmly in my friend zone when we first knew each other. I was just not in the dating zone when we met and by the time I realized my life was lame and I needed to get back in the dating zone Jake was already my friend. But I wanted to get married and knew what kind of guy I wanted to marry, so after the first date I said to myself, this is a nice guys, I want to be more than just friends. That being said, I think I passed up dating a lot of great guys along the way because I thought of them as "just friends". So, I guess I think it's a maturity thing.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Don't give up on girls who just want to be friends either. My brother in law has this theory of dating: faith, focus, fearless. My sister wasn't interested in dating him seriously because she had recently broken up an engagement. He asked her if he could still ask her out and she said yes, but she wanted to date other people too. So he planned dates for pretty much all of her free time so she couldn't go out with anyone else and figured he'd keep doing that until she said no. His persistence paid off.